雙11趣味口語(yǔ)：你至今仍是“單身公害”的10大原因

朋友圈里曬男友曬老公曬孩子的越來(lái)越多，你卻連一個(gè)固定都男朋友都沒(méi)有？難道自己真的是“單身體質(zhì)”，擁有男性抗體？非也非也！事實(shí)上，你的一些隱藏的行為表明你不是談戀愛(ài)的料兒。如果你意識(shí)到這些行為，改掉它們，就有可能在即將到來(lái)的雙11脫單哦！

雙11“脫單”必知1. You’re needy. You met him last weekend, he texted a few times, and now you just won’t leave the guy alone. This is probably the#1 behavior that gets girls labeled psycho in the early days。

你太需要關(guān)愛(ài)。你上周末才遇見(jiàn)他，他給你發(fā)過(guò)幾次短信，你就不想讓他獨(dú)自待著了，這可能是被人認(rèn)為“不正常”的頭號(hào)原因。

雙11“脫單”必知2. You like players。 You can’t resist the bad boys, the ones who have dumped on other women. You think that you will be different, that nabbing a player will validate your feminine powers. But the player always wins, because the player always walks。

你喜歡花花公子。你無(wú)法拒絕那些甩過(guò)女朋友的壞男人。你覺(jué)得自己與眾不同，能捕獲花花公子的心說(shuō)明自己有女人味。但是花花公子總是會(huì)贏(yíng)，因?yàn)樗麄兛偸菚?huì)離開(kāi)。

雙11“脫單”必知3. You’re aggressive。 You act like one of the guys. Male is biologically programmed to seek his complementary opposite – which includes a much larger dose of estrogen. You can be strong, independent, and very, very female。

你爭(zhēng)強(qiáng)好勝。你表現(xiàn)得就像男人一樣。從生理上講，男性天生就去尋找互補(bǔ)——擁有大量雌激素的女性。你其實(shí)可以既堅(jiān)強(qiáng)獨(dú)立，又可以非常有女人味。

雙11“脫單”必知4. You flirt too much. Flirting is an essential skill in any woman’s toolkit. It is meant to indicate to a guy thatyou are singling him out for special attention because you are attracted to him. If you flirt like crazy withevery Y chromosome you encounter, it loses its effectiveness, and makes you seem “not very choosy。”

你太愛(ài)調(diào)情。調(diào)情是女性的必殺技，用于你被某個(gè)男性吸引，想引起他注意的時(shí)候。如果你見(jiàn)到一個(gè)男性就和他調(diào)情，那么它就會(huì)失去作用，并且會(huì)讓你看起來(lái)“沒(méi)那么講究”。

雙11“脫單”必知5. You’re scared。 You’ve been burned before. You are understandably wary. You’ve got to find a way forward. There is no love for any of us without considerable risk, so do what you need to do to work through it。

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你感到害怕。你以前受過(guò)傷，謹(jǐn)慎是可以理解的，但你得找一個(gè)方法讓生活繼續(xù)。沒(méi)有風(fēng)險(xiǎn)就不會(huì)有愛(ài)情，所以做你該做的事情來(lái)克服它。

雙11“脫單”必知6. You’re too picky. You want a guy who is well-educated, financially successful, handsome, funny, witty, generous, blah blah blah. Get realistic. Keep an open mind when you’re sizing up men. Allow yourself to find the good。

你太挑剔了。你希望男友受過(guò)良好教育、富有、帥氣、幽默、聰明、大方等等。現(xiàn)實(shí)點(diǎn)兒吧！當(dāng)你對(duì)男性進(jìn)行估量時(shí)，請(qǐng)保持開(kāi)放的心態(tài)。找個(gè)不錯(cuò)的就行了。

雙11“脫單”必知7. You’re a Girl Gone Wild。 Stop getting drunk. No one, male or female, ever became more attractive when they got drunk . When you are drunk, you say and do foolish things。

你是個(gè)狂熱的女孩。別再醉酒了。無(wú)論是男是女，只要喝醉了，就沒(méi)什么吸引力。當(dāng)你醉酒時(shí)，你會(huì)說(shuō)會(huì)做一些愚蠢的事情。

雙11“脫單”必知8. You’re a pushover。 You put up with all kinds of crap. If you do not respect yourself, he certainly isn’t going to respect you, and your value in his eyes will tank。

你太容易被控制。 你忍受著各種不公平的待遇。如果你不尊重你自己，他當(dāng)然也不會(huì)去尊重你， 你的價(jià)值在他眼里也會(huì)暴跌。

雙11“脫單”必知9. You’re a Mean Girl。 Sometimes, guys want to get with mean girls because they’re powerful, but that relationship isn’t about love。

你是個(gè)壞女孩。有時(shí)，有些男性想和壞女孩在一起，因?yàn)樗麄兒軈柡�，但是這種關(guān)系不是愛(ài)情。

雙11“脫單”必知10. You’re high maintenance. You always feel slighted. He’s always saying and doing the wrong thing.Your feelings are constantly hurt, and he is constantly apologizing. Fighting all the time can be rewarding in the short-term, but ultimately it’s a total boner-killer。

你很難哄。你總是覺(jué)得自己被忽略，他總是在說(shuō)在做錯(cuò)誤的事情；你總是感覺(jué)很受傷，而他一直在向你道歉�？偸浅臣茉诙唐趦�(nèi)是有益的，但最終會(huì)令關(guān)系破裂。

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